Whenever things go wrong, it’s always easier to blame them. You know the them I’m taking about. Your mother, father, sister, friends, basically them is everyone but you. I’m not saying that people don’t do fucked up shit, because they do. (Let’s be honest, we all do at some point in our lives.) Sometimes we don’t understand why they do the things they do, but these things effect us. You can be hurt by someone’s actions, but this doesn’t have to enable you. You don’t have to become a victim of situation or circumstance.
What I am saying is…You can not fix what someone else broke, but you can fix you.
Why is it so hard for us to be accountable for our own lives. It’s easier to blame someone else than to accept responsibility. The reason things are the way that they are sometimes, is because you.
- People treat you the way they do, because of you. You allow it.
- You hate your job, but still go everyday. (It’s your choice, you don’t have to be there. Find another job. There are plenty out here, you just don’t want to do the work.
- Daddy/Mommy wasn’t there. Everything that goes wrong is because they weren’t there to teach you better.
- You’re in a bad relationship because he/she provides stability or you’re trying to prove a point. (Be honest with yourself.) Or, you’re holding on to toxic relationships because y’all been friends for a long time..
Its kinda this simple…
If you don’t like a situation, you can easily remove yourself. Stop blaming other people for the things you choose to put up with. You can’t change people. People are going to be exactly who they are. (If they want to change, they won’t need your convincing!) You don’t like what’s going on, change it. If you’re not going to change it, then stop complaining about it. WE DON’T WANT TO HEAR IT. Stop blaming everybody for your life. ITS YOURS. I know it’s easy, but let’s get rid of the blame game. Let’s start taking responsibility for our lives.