We’ve all heard that saying before. When someone comes to you, you always have the remedy, the method to their madness, the solution to their problems. What we fail to realize is we can’t visit those exact emotions nor fully understand why people can’t just “do” what you’re saying or thinking they should do. The truth of the matter is a lot of things are “easier said, than done”. It’s easy to say you want a healthy relationship, dream car, your dream career, dream house…but are you willing to put in the work for it? What people really want is for everything to be and to come as easy. When things don’t come as easy, it’s considered “too much”. Realistically, we don’t want to do the work. I say this covering all areas of life. Healing, forgiving, even working out it, it all takes work. What are you willing to do? What are you willing to say, commit to, sacrifice?
Stop saying more and doing less.
A sign of wisdom and maturity is when you come to terms with the realization that your decisions cause your rewards and consequences. You are responsible for your life, and your ultimate success depends on the choices that you make.