I wish you understood how we are living our lives together…how we are intentionally or unintentionally wasting our time. Time is so valuable. It’s the one thing in this world WE COULD NEVER GET BACK. I’d rather somebody waste my money than waste my time. On any given day. I could always get the money back, twice and over, but time…once it’s gone that’s just that. Stop wasting your time on people and situations that do not value your time. It’s costing you your life…literally. Live every day like it’s your last because one day, it will be. Stop “waiting” for the right time. Stop “waiting” for the right man/woman to come into your life. Stop “waiting” for somebody to get their shit together. If people don’t respect your time, it’s an indication that they don’t respect you. Quit “waiting”. If you die today, I guess you’ve waited far too long. The time you’re WASTING, waiting for, may never come. Stop wasting your time.
“In all our deeds, the proper value and respect for time determines success or failure” -Malcolm X
Whether you do “it” or not (whatever it may represent for you right now in your life) the time will pass anyway. Stop doing things you don’t want to do. Stop worrying. Stop spending more time on your phone when you can be spending your time with people who actually appreciate and cherish you. Stop waiting for shit to happen. Stop hanging around people who disrupt your peace and are negative.
“Time abides long enough for those who make use of it”
Wasting time is merely unwise. Save the excuses. It’s not about having time, it’s about making time. If it matters to you, you will make the time. What I am saying is, make appropriate use of your time. Understand how valuable your time is. Every funeral I’ve ever attended as people grieve they always say they wish they had more time…I think that is merely regret. I don’t believe they didn’t have enough time with that person. I truly believe they took that time that person had on earth for granted. Don’t be that person. We have time right now. Time to love, heal, forgive, understand, grow, and LIVE. I hope that you start doing things that actually matter. Take time to make relationships meaningful, and if the relationships you possess in your life aren’t…exit them. They are too expensive. It is costing you your time…you can’t replace time with all the money in the world or material things in life. Timing is everything, right…